Rays of hope, a brighter future to come by...Some tips I wish to share with you guys when you are facing with problems in life.
You got to also think that when you are facing a big problem, another person is facing as big problem as you, or may bigger problems. Try out some ways to encounter in the ways best suit you.
Here are some tips I find to be useful, sourced from http://www.missionarycare.com/brochures/br_coping_with_change.htm:
Swim with the current.
When the wind blows, don't build windbreaks, build windmills.
If life gives you lemon, make lemonade.
When the river flows, don't just build a dam, put in a hydroelectric generator.
Stubborn rigidity may defeat you while flexibility may get you through the current.
Remember that it will end.
Every stream or river ends at a lake, sea or ocean sooner or later.
Then, you will experience stability and normalcy again.
Keep this in mind as you feel like you are being helplessly swept along in the current.
Remember, it will take a full year to adapt to the change in a different city, feeling like home, not until you experience every season and every holiday in the city.
Hope that helps those that are in need of some directions in their lives...
Love and Regards,
KimoraIvyLeong
